Lovin' Me the Red, White and Blue!

I'm not usually a public opinionator, but I have had something on my mind for the last several months that I just need to get out.  With that said, here it is...

Since coming to Korea I have never heard or seen so much animosity against Americans. Almost every time I go to a bar, I'm asked the typical question, "Where are you from?" On more occasions than I would like, I have felt judged for saying I'm from America. 

Everyone feels they are from the BEST country in the world and that their country is better than yours. Yes, I will admit there are some things that I feel America could do better or that I don't agree with but that's my home. I love my country! I never thought I would come to Korea and gain so much patriotism towards America than I have in last 8 months.

I don't go around asking where you are from and then immediately start cracking jokes or say, "Ahhh I see." Really how rude can you be? This is one thing that has been on my mind the last several months and I know that I am definitely not the only American in Korea that feels this way.

I'm not going to use this post as a way of saying that I think Amercia is better, because I'm not saying that. I'm simply saying that I didn't come here for people to make me feel bad about where I from. I'm proud of my country, just like you are.

With that said...

God Bless America! 

I sure do miss you!

Decisions, Decisions, Decisions

One week from today will mark my 8th month anniversary of being in Korea. The time just seems to slip past me weekly. As Monday approaches, I blink and it's Friday. I feel blessed everyday to have been given this opportunity to live a year in such a beautiful country.

Before coming to Korea I had no goals, ideas, or plans as to what I wanted to do after. I had just planned to pack up my bags, move here, and start a new chapter in my life while leaving all the negative things behind. Well now it's time I begin to make some plans and decisions on my future. I've decided that I want to get back into doing what I love, event planning. Not only have I made this decision, but I'm also planning on FINALLY making that move to New York City. It's been long overdue! 

NYC <3

As most of you know, I came here on a year contract. I arrived July 31, 2011 and was expected to leave in August 2012. On Thursday, my director asked if I could extend longer and stay until March 2013. That's another year from now!!! I've been weighing the pros and cons all weekend and I'm not 100% sure that this would be the best for myself and career. I miss my family, friends, and the simple things about America that it would be hard to stay away another year.

sibling love <3

Mom and Pops 

It's definitely nice knowing how much I am valued in a workplace and that I am doing a great job. My director has been nothing but a great, fair, and honest person to work for. Some of my past work places have failed to acknowledge their hardworking employees.


SO after much consideration, I have offered to extend my contract until October and make the move to New York City around March. This pushes my return date back 3ish months. No Biggie! I feel this would be a good opportunity to save a little extra money and allow me to do more traveling. With the extremely cheap airfare around Asia, I'm hoping to make stops in Bali, Malaysia, and Hong Kong before returning home. 

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On another note, in one month I'll be reunited with two lovely ladies from home. I can't even begin to tell you just how excited I am to see Lauren and Tania and share my experiences of SoKo first hand with them. Ahhh watch out Korea!!! :)

I think of you all daily and miss you all so much!!! See you in October! :)


~Jenn xoxo

Geumsansa Buddhist Temple Stay

I left early Saturday morning and joined two lovely ladies, along with 20 some others, for a temple stay at the Geumsansa Buddhist Temple about 3 hours South in Jeollabuk-do. The object of a temple stay is to live and learn the lifestyle of a Buddhist monk. I went with little understanding of the Buddhist religion and lots of questions. We arrived at the temple around 2pm and were given an hour to roam the grounds before we began our adventure.

The temple was beautiful! I've seen Korean palaces and temples before so I knew what to expect, but this one was so peaceful. It was so refreshing being in the mountains, away from all the city noise, and actually being able to hear the birds chirp. Not to mention that this was the first night in Korea that I was able to see all the stars in the sky. Ahh just so amazing!

Here is where Buddha's relics are held

After walking around and taking in my view for the next 24 hours, it was time to meet up with the group to get our room assignments and monastic wear. My friends and I were lucky enough to score our own private room/bathroom for our stay. It was so nice!

rockin' the monastic wear

the door to our rooms

the rooms

our private room

 

We then met up with the rest of the group and met our monk. I call him our monk because he was our guide for the weekend. He first taught us how to bow. It was so interesting to learn the different ways to bow. He also taught us that when you put your hands together, like you're praying, your right hand is you and your left hand is the everything else in the world. When you bring them together you are connecting yourself with the rest of the world. So cool!

Next, we had craft time and got to make lotus lanterns. I was so excited to make these! The lotus flower represents new beginnings. It rises from muddy beginnings into something beautiful and celebrated. A very good friend of mine gave me a lotus necklace before coming to Korea that I wear everyday. Thanks again Melanie!!

Following dinner, we had a Buddhist Ceremonial Service. We walked over to a huge bell and drum to find two monks awaiting our arrival. Each of us got the opportunity to ring the bell. One of the monks watched as the sun set, because the bell is to not be rung after sunset.

That night, we lit our lanterns and paraded around the temple as our monk chanted.

Soon after, it was time for tea time with our monk. I learned that he was 31 years old and was basically forced into being a monk by his family who were devout Buddhists. He said his favorite thing about being a monk is being able to share stories with people, like us, but his least favorite was studying. Go figure he would say that...I mean I AM in Korea after all.

Then, it was lights out at 9pm for me. It was optional, but I woke up at 3am for another prayer service, called Yebul. I made my way over to the main temple and paid my respects to the Buddha.

this was the temple in which
we had our morning service

After a little nappage, it was time for our morning meditation. I was hoping to have a little more meditation practice during my visit, but it was very interesting. I found it a little hard to focus with being one with the universe, but I think it was because I was too tired to concentrate.


Following our meditation, we had a monastic breakfast. This included sitting Indian style on the floor while eating and not talking. In Buddhism it's proper to not speak during meals and to not waste food. My friends so kindly volunteered to serve us. We had bibimbap, which was the same food that we had for dinner and lunch. 

Next, we traveled over to the other side of the temple for some community service, or Ulyeok. The men had to chop wood, while the ladies had to sweep. The meaning behind the sweeping was to sweep your worries away with the wind. 

After sweeping away my worries, it was time for our walking meditation in the forest. We didn't go far only because it was FREEZING and it started to snow, but our monk took us to the love tree. It's basically two trees connected in the middle. There we "meditated" for about a minute.

green tea leaves

the love tree

Next, it was time to make Buddhist beads. The making of a set of Buddist beads involves 108 beads and bows, with each representing a prayer/wish. Our monk told us we had the option to not bow 108 times, but then he reminded us "No Pain, No Gain." I picked the temple that houses the Buddha and statues of the 500 thieves. (great story if you get a chance to read about it) It was awe inspiring and I felt every single bow. My legs still hurt today! I will never forget the 108 sufferings that helped to cleanse my soul. Such a fulfilling experience! :)

Finally, it was time to pack our bags and head back to reality. I wish I would have been able to experience more meditation while there, but I'm so so sooo happy with the outcome of the trip. It was such an amazing experience to learn about such a fascinating religion. I was reminded constantly on the trip that for a healthy body, one must have a healthy mind. I feel that this gets lost in translation a lot. This trip has made me more interested in learning about Buddhism and the importance of taking care of ones self. 

“We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think. When the mind is pure, joy follows like a shadow that never leaves.”

Meh New Babies!

The school year in Korea is divided into two semesters. The first begins in the beginning of March and ends in mid-July; the second begins in late August and ends in mid-February. This being said, our school began a new semester of classes which means...I get new students.

I was really excited for changes because let's be honest, we all need a little bit of change from our normal routine at work now and then. I'm sad to report that I am now longer in charge of teaching my Elmo babies. Ahhh I adore them! Nadine, aka Maybine Teachaaa, now gets the pleasure of teaching them :(

Ethan, Isaac, and Sevin <3

Before the semester began, I was given word that two of the worst behaving classes would be combined together as one AND I would get the pleasure of teaching this very class. HELP ME was my very thought!!  These students have been with ILS for a year and are 7 years old. I'm only one week in with Nemo class and so far so good. I constantly have to ask them if they want me to be a fun teachaaa or mean teachaa. You can guess what they pick...

Chloe & Soo

Joshua

Matthew + Justin + Robin = big trobs

Matthew <3

My next class is Snoopy class. They are new to ILS this year and are 6 years old. They each have HUGE personalities. I love them already!!

sweet little Sean

Allllbert

On the first day of school I was asked to name my first unborn child. The girl below was not happy with her English name, so I was asked to "name" her. She settled on Sally. Unfortunately she was too shy for the camera.

shy Sally

In the 7 months that I have been teaching I have never had a student be scared of me until now. I received a note from Judy's mom today telling me that Judy she is afraid of me. haha! She thinks it's because Judy doesn't understand what I'm saying to her. She'll warm up to me soon!!

Judy

The girl below, Reina, has the most sass I have ever seen. I swear she could be my child. The first day she was crossing her legs while doing arts & crafts and sharing her hand cream with me. Today while taking pictures, she asked me to retake her pictureFIVE TIMES!! I <3 her!

This weekend coming up I'm heading about five hours south of Seoul to do a temple stay at a Buddhist Temple. I'll basically be living the life of a monk for two days. I'm so excited, but a little nervous! I can't wait to get more cultured in the lifestyle. I'll post updates and pics as soon as I get back!

Love and miss you all more than you know!!

-Jenn xoxo